If it helps, I do most of my story exploring in very small groups, or when alone with one other person. And listening is the key. Listen and then prove you've been listening (and not just waiting to speak) by asking questions based on what you've heard. No one feels heard anymore, and if you're a good listener the world will seek you out.
And make eye contact, even while people look away. My Plan B was to become a priest so I could hear Confessions. And people still need someone to tell everything to. So consider that your silence might be a big asset. (nice Amy Hempel picture)
If it helps, I do most of my story exploring in very small groups, or when alone with one other person. And listening is the key. Listen and then prove you've been listening (and not just waiting to speak) by asking questions based on what you've heard. No one feels heard anymore, and if you're a good listener the world will seek you out.
And make eye contact, even while people look away. My Plan B was to become a priest so I could hear Confessions. And people still need someone to tell everything to. So consider that your silence might be a big asset. (nice Amy Hempel picture)